My superhero is Superman.

Those who have been reading  my posts since the early days of Meta Engagers will know a fair bit of my background and that I like to post ❤️ stories.

Superman stories are not just about super exploits and heroic deeds. They include stories of his relationships with school mate Lana Lang and with Lois Lane.

His relationships with the 2 has their ups and downs and he has had to struggle with his own feelings. Like in those ❤️ stories that I posted where the protagonists suffered heartbreaks but had much joy.

Such stories remind me of myself. How I struggled.

My favourite superhero is not actually Superman but his alter-ego, Clark Kent.

Yes, I did imagine my self as superman. As someone who is small sized and have some disabilities, I was clumsy and gets bullied. Being strong, quick and able to fly was part of my fantasy world to which I could escape. That was just a fantasy world that I could run to escape from real life.

Deep down within myself I know that I am the opposite of superman. Instead of being the hero and someone that others praised and respected, I was the weakling that was condemn and looked down on.

Thus superman was not someone that I could really identify with. I want to be like him but know that I cannot be like him.

Clark Kent was someone that I could identify myself with. Clark wearing glasses, sometimes clumsy and gets pushed around.

I was someone with  not just a super but a supermega inferiority complex and afraid of trying to be friends with girls. So the trouble the boy superman had in his schooldays and as Clark Kent are what I can relate to.

In comic #662, Secrets Of The Night, the relationship between Clark and Lois did have a happy ending but not without twist and turns .

After many ups and downs in earlier episodes their relationship had developed into love. Clark was in Lois apartment and he wanted to disclose his identity to Lois and propose to her. 

Banshee broke into the apartment  to attack Clark that Banshee by scent knows is Superman. Lois would be injured if a fierce battle had taken place there and also the apartment would have been destroyed.

So Clark had to leave the apartment and lead Banshee away.

Banshee defeated superman  and Superman would have been killed if not for the Crone who helped him.

After the battle, Superman returned to Lois's apartment for a happy ending.

My relationship with the 👩‍⚕️K was not a smooth one.

We had our ups and downs but we did eventually get married and have a happy ending.

Like in the ❤️ stories I like to tell and like in the story of my hero Clark Kent and Lois Lane.

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Let's have some engagement 

Do you like superman?

Why do you like him?

If your favourite hero is someone else, why do you prefer that hero to superman?

Do you imagine that you are your hero?

Do you identify yourself with your hero? (What similarities are there between you and your hero?)

Are you like me and identify yourself with Clark more than Superman
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I really look forward to your answers to the above questions.

Thank you very much to everyone who answers. Let's have fun and enjoy the replies😜🙂