I will not prolong this post, but I will tell you some advice that you should follow. Among these tips is: Know who you mix with around you, from friends, employers, neighbors, and everyone so that you are not nice.

I mean by nice a person who says yes to everything, that is a problem you have to deal with, as you say yes beyond your effort and ability. You should be kind instead of being nice.

At some point I wasted a lot of time pleasing the wrong people in my life even though I could have left them and they would not care about me as I cared about them. My advice to you is to take care of yourself and your family because they are the only ones who will really care about you if you succeed and worse if you fail.