AITA for Donating to a Women's Shelter Instead of Buying a Gift?

Hello friends, I need your opinion on the matter. My cousin's birthday is coming up and traditionally we exchange gifts within the family. this year instead of buying a physical gift I decided to make a donation to a local women's shelter in her name. The shelter provides a safe haven for women who have experienced domestic violence and helps them rebuild their lives.I made this choice because I know my cousin is passionate about women's rights and has supported similar causes in the past. I thought she would appreciate the gesture especially since the shelter could use the support.When I presented her with a card explaining the donation she seemed disappointed and even a bit hurt. She mentioned that she was expecting a traditional gift and did not see the donation as a thoughtful present. It led to some strange within the family, with some supporting my decision and others thinking I should have bought a tangible gift.

AITA for donating to a women's shelter instead of buying a physical gift for my cousin's birthday? I wanted to honor her values but it seems like it might not have been the right choice.