2 epic songs

Going to break ups gets us down , both mental and physical. 

Studies show that women are the most affected  compared with man after a break out, but also studies show that woman are going to get out more stronger mentally than man. 

I share 2 songs that are the results of a break out that became great hits. 

“I will survive “- is Glorya Gainor’s song based in a devastating break up written in October 1978. 

The song is also recognized as a symbol of female empowerment. 

The song starts with the below lyrics: 

   “ At first I was afraid, I was petrified

Kept thinking I could never live without you by my side

But then I spent so many nights thinking how you did me wrong

And I grew strong

And I learned how to get along” 

These lyrics are showing weakness first and how lost  are we when we lose the person we love, but going forward you see that inside strength and self respect is coming out making her stronger and stronger. 

Then the refrain is even more powerful:

Oh no, not I, I will survive

Oh, as long as I know how to love,

I know I'll stay alive

I've got all my life to live

And I've got all my love to give and I'll survive

I will survive

The refrain is showing that even if we get  devastated by the love, also with love we can heal it.  there are going to be more wonderful and lovable moments with another one. 

ENJOY THE SONG HERE:

On the other side, we have a young, talented,  beautiful land controversial lady  , Milley Cirus, that her after break up wit Liam Heminworth , she wrote the song ''Flowers''  who brought a Grammy award for her, stayed 38 weeks in Bilboard top  becoming  the longest-running number one-song in the history of the BillboardAdult Contemporary chart. 

The song starts with these Lyrics:

We were good, we were gold

Kinda dream that can't be sold

We were right 'til we weren't

Built a home and watched it burn

Mmm, I didn't wanna leave you, I didn't wanna lie

Started to cry, but then remembered I  

I can buy myself flowers

Write my name in the sand

Talk to myself for hours

Say things you don't understand

I can take myself dancing

And I can hold my own hand

Yeah, I can love me better than you can

Can love me better, I can love me better, baby

Can love me better, I can love me better, baby  

The same message: greif  and a lot of suffering until she realize that she is stronger and can take care of herself. 

She was denning and tried to make it work : 

I didn't wanna leave you, I didn't wanna fight

Started to cry, but then remembered I

I can buy myself flowers (uh-huh)  .......

But she remember that she is stronger that she looked like. 

Enjoy the song here: