Relationship Discussion


Am I being dramatic?
Me (36F) and my bf (37M) have been together for 3 years now. The last 2 years we have move in together, he has change his job and so he was quite stressed, our sex life started to be a little bit impacted like in terms of frequency. At the beginning was more like once a week, then once a month and with the time the periods of no sex become longer. Now we are at 7months... ofc this impacts directly on my self autoestime. Yesterday I brought out the topic again and on top of the previous explanations "I am tired, I work too much, I feel like is always the same" he added that the problem was also that I am overweight. It's true that in the last 3 years I add 10k (should be like 20lbs?) But I do still consider myself attractive and I don't think this should be one "explanation".. even if I understand the physical part is important I also think that this is quite superficial. Am I wrong to be mad?
My partner took it badly and now refuses to speak with me.
(40f) am with my partner (54m) for around a year. We live together for around 6 months. He has 2 kids from previous relationships (3m and 7f). I know the girl for around 8 months, the boy for 5. The kids spend with us half of the week.
I have brought at home an old handmade sushi set for two. It is almost with antique value, especially made to be used only by couples.

Your eyes are open but you just can't see
This song speaks to me in a whole lot of ways, but tonight it was making me think about what a shame it is that there are so many men around who don't see the value of women, and yet all that they say they want is love and a woman 🤔

Should a Wife Leave If Her Husband Fails to Fulfill Her Rights?
Hello, In many cultures and societies, the institution of marriage is considered sacred and a partnership built on mutual respect and responsibilities. it's essential to address the sensitive question of what happens when one partner fails to fulfill their obligations. Specifically, when a husband does not fulfill the rights of his wife, should the wife consider leaving him?The rights and responsibilities of both spouses are outlined in various religious, cultural, and legal contexts. In Islam, for example, both husbands and wives have rights and duties towards each other. In Christianity, the Bible emphasizes love, respect, and support within the marriage.When a husband neglects his responsibilities, such as providing emotional support, financial stability, or showing kindness and affection, it can lead to feelings of frustration and unhappiness for the wife.
According to me the decision to leave a marriage should not be taken lightly. Before making any decisions, open and honest communication is crucial. Both partners should talk about their feelings, concerns, and expectations.In some cultures and legal systems, divorce is a complex process with social stigma. Consider the legal and cultural implications before making a decision. But If the relationship becomes toxic or abusive, leaving might be the best option for her safety and happiness. Marriage is a significant commitment, and efforts to salvage it should always be considered before contemplating separation.

Sex in Relationships
A Couple is called a boarding couple without Romance and Without any thing Like Without kisses hugs.
In a Relationship it is Important to do something 😉 For a Better Relationship mostly peoples not agree but as my point of view there is if the girl is not ready for this by asking his boyfriend . and not have a Sex with him this thing make the boyfriend to leave that girl who is not obeying him
I'm a feminist not a monster
I am a young woman (30), I have a good job and a satisfying life. I'm single and I happen to know guys who are interested in getting to know me. The last guy I met left me shocked because I considered the idea that in a couple the man commands and the woman executes, at least for the new generations, to have faded.
I received a feminist education, of which I am proud, for which it is not permissible that a woman should be submissive to a man, otherwise he feels his virility threatened. In a couple, or in any case between two people, this relationship between dominator and submissive should not exist, but it should have equal weight and importance.It is demeaning to be told that, just because you believe in certain ideas, you are a "monster". It is shameful to instill in women a sense of inadequacy and blame them in this way, making them believe they are wrong just because they said no to such subjection.
Dating can be so damaging in a world where women are constantly objectified
Dating men in my experience has been emotionally damaging, I constantly feel objectified, and it’s safe to say I won’t be dating again. I know I’m not alone, and women deserve better than this.
I am a 28 year old who has had absolutely horrific luck in regards to dating. As a result, this past year or so, I have avoided dating entirely. I’ve remained celibate and focused on myself, bettered my life, and have been relatively happy and content with being alone up until recently.
Today's my birthday and I found out my boyfriend has been cheating on me
Probably the whole time we've been official, four months and two weeks or so. After the first couple weeks spending a lot of time together he (36m) started acting different and wasn't texting as much and his availability became inconsistent and I (32f) questioned him and he made me believe I was being clingy and codependent so I read self help books on attachment and codependency. I accidentally found out he was bi and I let him know I knew and assured him I didn't care and my only request was to not cheat on me with a guy or a girl. That's a common rule to romantic relationships ya know.
The gut feeling and all the signs were there but I just didn't see it until I got a look at his phone.
My husband simply doesn't get it
My husband does tell me he cares about women’s rights but he thinks I take it too far and lose sleep over it (which I do). He worries it’s affecting my mental health, and maybe it is. I have pretty bad PPA so these things send me down a spiral sometimes and I get really worked up. I’m going to sit down and talk to him about this and hopefully we’ll find resolution. Anyways, thanks for all the responses!
My husband and l overall have a healthy marriage. We have three young kids. We don’t fight that much but the thing we fight about most is political topics, feminism etc. I’ve always been more left leaning but I had my major feminist awakening in the past year since having our daughter and Roe being overturned. My husband considers himself pretty much a centrist but would vote for a more socialist type candidate if there was someone like a Bernie Sanders available. We both have the same education level which is a graduate degree but right now I’m a SAHM and he works but he’s a great partner and involved parent.
Jumped in the shower with hubby, not the reaction I was expecting!
I (26F) got turned on after seeing my husband (30M) take his shirt off and walk into the bathroom for the shower so I decided I’d strip naked and hop in with him and as soon as I opened that curtain, instead of being excited about a naked woman joining him he immediately met me with annoyance because I like the water temperature hotter than he does and said it’s not fun to shower with me. I was so hurt but I said I didn’t need the water any warmer and I literally just wanted a hug because at this point I had given up on anything sexual and instead he just turned our shower head to the wall and turned the heat up then walked out and grabbed his towel without even finishing rinsing the soap off that was on him. I finished showering alone then walked out and got wine drunk and cried lol. I never thought this would be where I would be in my 20’s and I just need the strength to leave but I love him so much, it really sucks..
